It’s an occupational hazard of being a travel writer: to visit a country and think: “oh! this place looks INTERESTING; I wonder what it would be like to live here.”

The answer is always: Much the same as a yeast infection, HAEMORRHOIDS or AMOEBIC dysentery, so move along; nothing to see here.

Keep Wondering and keep wandering.

Do not stop.

But I stopped.

I should have learned.

But I didn’t.

And then I whined like a bitch for the next 12 months as my life circled the drain.

Pretty much every day, during my time in Qatar, was worse than the day before.

It was worse than the time I drank a bottle of wine and decided to get on the roof and fix my TV aerial.

It was worse than the time my mother thought I’d alighted from her vehicle and drove off with me hanging out of the door.

It was even worse than the gin-fuelled time I made a ladder out of garbage bins to climb in through the second storey balcony after locking myself out of my apartment.

So many broken bones.

My Doha life was no less fractured, hurtling from one calamity to another.

It had been crappy from dot.

My first day at my new job I should have known. 

The moment she reached around, I should have known. 

I thought perhaps she was brushing off an imagined imperfection. 

But no. 

Hands like shovels, she (my new boss) dug deep into her gusset and removed her briefs with a deafening snap of knicker elastic. 

Bahhhhhh! 

I screamed in my head. 

And again Bahhhhhh! as she offered me her hand. 

At that precise moment, I should have hightailed it back to the airport and caught the next flight home. 

But I didn’t. I chose to stay. 

I chose to spend 183 days living my worst life.

I wan’t blind or even blinkered. I was informed… well aware.

I’d spent time in the Middle East before so I knew exactly what to expect. 

I'd been there before; worked there before. 

I’d been to Qatar twice. But this time was different. So, so different.

And now I was working on a magazine and directing a fashion shoot.

“Dude, she’s put her chest on back to front. I’ve got bigger tits than her,” said the photographer.

She had and he did.

RBF Model glared.

The photographer motioned me over.

“She’s too bony for that outfit,” he said.

He had a point; she had all the grace of a wicker basket.

Earlier I’d been thinking, when the call to prayer woke me at dawn, that today would be less crap. Dunno why… just a feeling. And work wasn’t going to be too bad. At least I was out of the office and away from her…my boss, not RBF Model.

Just one of those things: a garden-variety fashion shoot I told myself.

I got this.

Until RBF Model arrived: face like a slapped arse, thieving the happiness with every breath she took – a thunderous pout someone mistook for glamourista-chic.

She chain-smoked and flicked me ‘if-looks-could-kill’ evils between sips of Diet Coke and scowls. 

Hate her.

The shoot began. And all was well for a while.

But later that day.

"Can you just give me one more look in the pink outfit before you get changed,” I asked politely and gave a thumbs up to the photographer. We were almost done with the spring/summer shoot, and we were pooped. 

“Can you just go f*%k yourself,” RBF Model muttered under her breath. 

To be continued…

So much is so sacred in India: cows, temples, Brahmin, Mother Teresa, Ganesh and the Ganges. There’s Varanasi and Vishnu - cricket’s Virat Kohliand and Bollywood’s Shahrukh Khan - the list is long.  

On my list – sacred and exalted – is the holy of holies: a clean, private, flushing toilet, which so far had been present and beloved during my short time in Kolkata.  

But on day two, things – loo paper included – quickly unraveled.  

On the tour bus, a blonde, Danish traveller had been writhing in her seat since temple number 3 for the day, when she attempted a discreet bottom toot, which delivered more than expected. 

“Stop the bus!”

Soon, the entire tour group came down with gastro and bathroom cubicles swung open and shut like saloon doors in a thirsty Western. 

But not me.

I escaped the bug that had undergarments bleating in misery all about me. 

I cleaned my teeth with bottled water. 

I went through half a tube of hand sanitiser every eight hours. 

I did everything the guidebook told me to, and more. 

As day three ended, I drifted off to sleep, serenaded by the distant chorus of toilets flushing through the night.

The next morning, at breakfast, as I sipped my bottled water and nibbled on my plain toast, somewhere between smugs-ville and self-righteous town, I felt the tiniest gurgle in my tummy. 

As I bolted for the washroom, the events that followed were X-rated and blisteringly violent. 

And so it remained for the duration of the three-week tour. 

When I wasn’t glued to the toilet seat I was staring down the barrel of one, vomiting with all the gusto of a possessed, pea-soup spitting child.

But life continued. 

We were on tour.

You have to get on with.

You must get on with it.

Many say a tummy bug and its accompaniments are all part of a trip to certain countries, but I had been here before and not fallen ill. 

Now I cursed the double-daal Thali, as I hunched over the porcelain in the road-side restaurant washroom.

“I’m sorry,” I muttered through streaming eyes as I tipped the bathroom attendant a king’s ransom. 

Brought up laden with British reserve, toilet humour is verboten in my family, so when I returned to the table to hear tales of the ‘fart that wasn’t’ …  ‘Pandora’s knickers and the evils within’ I was at first reluctant to share. But this new and exciting world of cistern chatter was both bewildering and enlightening to me. 

Chronic diarrhoea is a particularly tiresome brand of sickness - made worse when you’re on the move, but when the entire group comes down with it, you have no choice but to share. 

As I listened, I realised I had escaped remarkably unscathed, compared to some. 

Horrors … such horrors.

That was, until the very end.  

It was our final day in India. 

I excused myself from the table as a tummy rumble indicated the need for flight to the washroom, which had become almost second nature. 

When we reached our last hotel I was somewhat perturbed to discover my toilet had a rather energetic flush.

The intricacies of local plumbing have long been a point of confusion for me: strange pipes that lead nowhere and taps in the middle of rooms.  

This toilet that sprayed all over the bathroom when flushed just seemed another touch of whimsy.

Simple though: close the lid before flushing. 

I knicker-dropped at warp speed and sat a while contemplating the Celine Dion muzak piped into every corner of the hotel; her pinched nasal twang really was an appropriate anthem for soiling oneself. 

“Near, far, wherever you are…once more you open the door..." 

I sensed some firming of my deposits and gazed into the toilet to confirm.

Momentarily forgetting the exploding toilet and flushed … 

I was trying to finish a story about a recent trip to India, despite all the noise and commotion around the corner from where I was staying. Eventually, I gave in and went for a look-see ... and this is what I discovered... The biggest Maori cultural event in Hawke's Bay, the 2018 Ngati Kahungunu Kapa HakaFestival, held in Wairoa.

The regional competition is a qualifying event to see who will perform at the 2019 Te Matatini National Kapa Haka Festival for the Kahungunu region.

In Nagaland in north east India we came across this lady.

Every day this lady collects firewood for her family

My grandmother, Alice Warrington

Before I was too young to understand, my grandmother told me to follow my dreams.

"You can be anyone you want to be, if only you have the courage to seize the day," she said.

I told her I wanted to see the world, and so you shall she said with a squeeze and a kiss.

Alice passed away before I got to know her; before I understood the worldly advice of a lady who never left the country she was born in.

Worldliness is a state of mind and not measured by the stamps in our passports.

I was in Sri Lanka. 

The look on this little fella's face says it all: it's hot as hell. 

Two weeks in and still the awesomeness keeps coming. 

I arrived at Sigiriya, an ancient rock fortress located in the northern Matale District near the town of Dambulla in the Central Province, sans trusty water bottle.

No matter.

How hot can it possibly be. 

Very. 

But then one of the locals spied me swooning Jane Austen style and shared their water with me and all was right with the world again.  

Sri Lankans really are the most generous, caring people. 
 

Technically I wasn't feeding the animals and no kookaburras were harmed during the filming of this picture.

Smoking causes beak cancer

I was at a holiday house in the Blue Mountains about two hours drive west of Sydney.

There was food involved.

I vaguely remember leaving some cheese and crackers on the terrace and someone had left cigarettes on the table.

But Polly didn't want a cracker.

He wanted a smoke.

Once again, it seemed like a great idea at the time ... happy days ...

At least it was warm and toasty

Come to the party they said.

Never one to give up the opportunity to slip into a costume, the obvious choice to attend a Sound of Music party was to go dressed as bread and jam.

It all went swimmingly until the neighbours, on account of a particularly raucous chorus of 'My Favourite Things,' called the cops. It was spectacular.

The police constables were less enthused.

But when I answered the door thusly attired they were powerless to reprimand me and instead advised us to party hard.

We obliged.

And continued with our tribute to Julie Andrews and the iconic 60's movie.

This happened while I was in Sydney but it doesn't matter where you are travelling around the world, party hard and dance like no one is watching, even if you can hardly move because you're trapped in a huge slice of glittered bread.

Go hard.

It's a truth universally acknowledged that if you ask someone not to do something, chances are they're likely to do exactly that which you forbade.

Don't touch the costume cupboard .... sorry I can't hear you.

Such was the request and subsequent naughty defiance during a vacation to Byron Bay.

A theatre group had once rented the property and a substantial costume collection remained.

Red flag.

Bull.

The door to the costume room was locked but no match for a Phillips head and few gentle taps.

Honestly, what did you expect?

It's a great idea to stay in a love hotel, said no one ever

Sad face: but nothing 20 litres of spray bleach can't fix

I was curious.

What exactly was a 'Love Hotel'?

Rented by the hour or the night ... suspicious looking people shuffling in back entrances.

I'd been in Bangkok for a week and neon signs everywhere had piqued my curiosity.

I should have known.

Renting anything relating to 'love' by the hour can't be good.

Not that I object ... it's just not my poison.

Each to their own.

I found a hotel on Ratchadaphisek Road.

It had no windows. Probably should have given it away, but I entered the foyer, which was excessively beige and not at all suggestive of what was going on in the rooms upstairs.

The receptionist was neat and charming.

What was I worried about?

Fears allayed.

But only for a moment.

When I got to my room I noticed sticky hand prints covering the wall above the bed.

I checked the nightstand.

No bible.

I thought as much.

Sex.

I called down to reception.

Several litres of bleach later the smell of - whatever that smell was - was gone and replaced with an eye-watering hospital grade scent of cleanliness.

And it's not just in Thailand.

There are love hotels all over the world catering to secret assignations, starstruck lovers and horny business men. 

"Eat shit" is something my sister often says to me.

Does this pink, plastic poncho make my bum look big?

And other choice phrases.

Siblings.

You love them. But sometimes they get on your tits.

And words come out ... the hurtful things you don't actually mean, but at the end of the day they know you better than anyone else, and when all is said and done ... you don't really want them to eat shit ...

or so I thought.

On our last trip to Cambodia, we decided to go on a half-day tour around the villages surrounding the capital city Phnom Penh, on quad bikes.

Towards the end of the trip we drove through a paddock full of cow excrement and my sister became bogged down in poo.

I laughed.

Oh, how I laughed.

Up to her pretty, white sneakers in shit.

I told her to "give it arseholes" a delightful phrase I learned in New Zealand, which has a miscellany of different meanings, but in this instance meant put your foot down.

As she accelerated out of the paddock back onto the track, several kilos of cow shit, which had been lodged under the quad bike wheels hit me in the face with such velocity it knocked off my sunglasses and filled my mouth and throat.

I have not the words ...

'Sudoko' doesn't get you very far in Japan. Not when you need to hail a cab or order a drink or ask where the bathrooms are or excuse yourself for sitting on an old lady on the metro.

Bonsai! ... One of the few Japanese words I know ... but not very helpful

I really should have learned some Japanese .. or brought my phrase book. And then of course, when you get lost the arguments start. 

Nelle and I are bickering furiously about which Japanese symbol to press on the ticket machine at the subway station when we hear, “this button, press for Nikko”.

The thing about travelling. You meet a lot of people. And sometimes you need to walk away.

This is just a random picture I found on the net. Any resemblance to Margot is purely coincidental.

This is a bit hard when you're trapped on a four-day Sydney to Perth train trip. One of the guests took an instant dislike to me. Or rather to the fact I was a "freeloading" travel writer. On day two she hunted me down...

While in Japan, a mixture of confusion and greed (mine) led to enough saké being ordered to down a small horse. I have not touched saké since.

Naughty saké ... wickedness never tasted so good

We dine at Gonpachi (the Kill Bill restaurant).

I’m with my travelling companion Nelle, her friend Alicia and Japanese partner Kazuo, the latter whispers something into Alicia’s ear.

I don't much like water.

This is not me. I was not nearly as elegant.

It's more that I don't like being fully immersed in wetness ...